Karen-Selby-ASB-4-When mesothelioma patients contact you where are they in their cancer journey
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Registered Nurse Karen Selby:

Such a good question because it's usually all over the place. I mean, they're usually coming to us for the very first time, and they were just told of this diagnosis. They're panicking. They are, told by their doctor, you've you have a terminal cancer.


And oftentimes they leave the office and they don't hear a thing after that. They just walk home or drive home, and then they think about, oh my gosh, now what. And then they start researching on the internet, and then they get really freaked out because there's a lot of scary things on the internet. And so oftentimes they come to us very scared, and they come to us.


It's like, now what do I do? You know, what should I do? And, you know, we help them at every or whether it be, you know, I want a second opinion, or my doctor just said this. Does that make sense?


What should I do next? Sometimes they just say, Hey, I would like those free books have advertised. That's all I want is the free books, and that's fine. You know, we send the free books.


We'll gladly send them to you because we wanna make sure that these patients are getting very good information. There's a lot of information on the internet, it may not always be accurate. And so we feel comfortable that we're providing them current information that's gonna really help them through their journey, whether that be just helping them with what kind of questions should you be asking your doctor to make sure they're the right doctor, or, you know, should I be seeing someone else should I be looking at clinical trials. So, so they they come to us with a lot of fear, a lot of feeling of doom.


And, my goal is to try to help overcome that. I can't cure them. But I certainly can give them some highlights and brighten their day and assure them that, they got it. I mean, we're gonna help them through this and they're gonna they're gonna be okay.

Understanding Your Mesothelioma Diagnosis

Mesothelioma is not lung cancer, but a cancer of the mesothelium, which is the thin protective lining surrounding your lungs, abdomen and heart. Asbestos exposure, often decades earlier, is the primary cause of mesothelioma. Mesothelioma is rare cancer diagnosed in about 2,800 people each year in the United States. Mesothelioma is aggressive but treatable, and its outcomes improve significantly with the right specialist care.

  • Request your pathology report from your doctor

    This document includes your cell type, and it’s the first medical record any specialist will want to see. Having a copy puts you in control of the next steps.

  • Ask specifically: “What is my cell type, and what does that mean for treatment?”

    Epithelioid cells respond best to treatment and carry the most favorable prognosis. Sarcomatoid cells are more aggressive. Biphasic contains both, and the outcome depends on the cell ratio. The answer to this question will shape your entire treatment plan.

  • Record every appointment with permission

    You will not remember everything you hear right after a diagnosis. If a family member or friend can join you, bring them. If not, ask your doctor if you can record the conversation on your phone so you can revisit it.

  • Write down your questions before each appointment

    It’s easy to forget what you wanted to ask once you’re in the room. Keep a running list on your phone or notebook. A Patient Advocate from Asbestos.com can help you know what questions to ask.

Hope After a Mesothelioma Diagnosis

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Dr. Jacques Fontaine: Hope After a Mesothelioma Diagnosis

The best advice I can give to somebody who was just diagnosed with mesothelioma is to not lose hope and to accept help. That help can be coming from family members, from friends, from support groups. But it’s important to share your diagnosis, to talk about it. You don’t have to hide. You don’t have to keep all that burden to yourself.

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Find a Mesothelioma Specialist

Finding a mesothelioma specialist is the single most important step you can take in your cancer journey. A general oncologist may never see a case of mesothelioma in their entire career. But a mesothelioma specialist may see dozens every year, and that volume of experience changes outcomes. Equally important is finding a Center of Excellence, which is a cancer center with a tumor board of surgeons, radiation oncologists, pathologists, dietitians and other health care professionals who evaluate individual mesothelioma patients.

  • Find a mesothelioma specialist at a Center of Excellence

    Look for a doctor affiliated with a Center of Excellence and with years of experience treating mesothelioma patients. This distinction matters when it comes to extending your life expectancy and improving your prognosis.

  • Use our free Doctor Match service to get seen faster

    Our Doctor Match service can connect you with doctors in your state or nearby locations. Our Patient Advocates have established relationships with leading mesothelioma centers and can often get you an appointment much faster than you can on your own.

  • Don’t let distance stop you. Ask about remote consultations

    Many top specialists offer telemedicine consultations for initial reviews. A remote consultation can happen this week. If in-person travel is needed, we can connect you with financial assistance programs for travel and lodging.

“It’s so important to seek care in a mesothelioma-specialized center. We get patients with mesothelioma coming from the four corners of the country. We’re able to become experts in this. And we’re able to find the correct treatment for patients,” said Dr. Jacques Fontaine, director of the Mesothelioma Research and Treatment Center at Moffitt Cancer Center in Tampa.

Why Should I Visit a Mesothelioma Specialist Instead of a General Doctor?

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Dr. Andrea Wolf: Why a Mesothelioma Specialist Is Better Than General Doctor

A general doctor is very important for a patient’s care in the sense that they have a more general understanding of the patient’s medical issues. In fact, they might have more expertise in general medical issues for that patient. They can help assess the patient’s ability to tolerate therapy and help optimize that patient to undergo therapy. But it is really important for a patient’s seek a specialist when it comes to a rare disease, such as plural mesothelioma.

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Know Your Mesothelioma Treatment Options

Ask your mesothelioma specialist about building a personalized treatment plan for your diagnosis. Understanding the treatment landscape means you’ll know what questions to ask, which treatments are best for you, whether you should participate in a clinical trial, and when to seek another opinion. While some patients will pursue aggressive curative intent, others may focus on maximizing quality of life. Both reasons are valid.

Two factors that will shape everything about your treatment are your mesothelioma type (where it developed, most commonly in the lung lining) and your cell type (epithelioid, sarcomatoid or biphasic). Cell type determines which treatments are best for you, and it strongly influences your outlook. Be sure to know both before you make any treatment decisions.

Types of Mesothelioma Treatment

Surgery

Removes tumors and affected tissue. Surgery is most effective for earlier-stage patients. Not every patient is a candidate so ask your specialist about your diagnosis.

Chemotherapy

Drug therapy (typically pemetrexed + cisplatin or carboplatin) to slow or stop cancer growth. Chemotherapy is often combined with other treatments.

Immunotherapy

Nivolumab + ipilimumab is FDA-approved for mesothelioma. This immunotherapy combination has shown strong results in some mesothelioma patients.

Clinical Trials

Access to cutting-edge treatments before they’re widely available. Centers of Excellence participate in clinical trials that most hospitals don’t offer.

Radiation

Targeted high-energy beams to shrink tumors. Radiation is typically used alongside surgery or to manage specific symptoms.

Palliative Care

Manages pain and symptoms, and patients can receive it alongside active treatment. Asking for palliative care early improves quality of life and treatment outcomes.

Questions to Ask Your Doctor

As a new cancer patient, you’ll need to know a great deal about how your diagnosis will impact your body, life and family. Ask your doctor questions about managing side effects, treatment complications, long-term follow-up care, what you can do at home to promote recovery, how the cancer progresses over time and how to prepare for the future. Because there are many questions you can ask, our Patient Advocates created this printable guide you can take to the doctor’s office.

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Compensation for Your Mesothelioma Diagnosis

Mesothelioma treatment is critical to your survival, but it’s also expensive. It can take a hit on your wages and retirement savings. Because mesothelioma is a preventable disease, you can seek compensation from the companies and manufacturers that neglected to warm employees about the risk of mesothelioma from asbestos exposure.

Finding the right mesothelioma attorney is like finding the right treatment: Not every attorney is right for you. Mesothelioma cases require firms with decades of asbestos litigation experience, proprietary exposure databases and proven speed. A reputable asbestos law firm can help you find legal options to pay for your treatment, lodging and other treatment-related expenses.

  • Start the conversation as soon as possible

    Legal claims have statutes of limitations that vary by state. The sooner you know your legal options, the more time your legal team has to build the strongest possible case. Many patients delay unnecessarily. Don’t let this be one more thing on the list.

  • If you’re a veteran, ask about your VA benefits

    Veterans, particularly those who served in the Navy, in boiler rooms, engine rooms or shipyards, have among the highest mesothelioma rates of any group. VA disability compensation, free VA health care and dependency benefits may all be available to you, in addition to any legal claims.

  • You can still file if a loved one has passed

    Wrongful death claims are available to family members. Time limits still apply. Reach out and we’ll make sure your rights are preserved.

  • Other financial options outside of a lawsuit

    Our Patient Advocates can discuss grants that cover travel and lodging as well as Social Security and disability benefits.

“[Filing a lawsuit] has actually been a game changer for us,” said peritoneal mesothelioma survivor Epifanio Figueroa. “Also, I’ve been able to help my family, which I couldn’t before. I have been able to leave a legacy for my kids and my grandkids.”

Types of Legal Options

Lawsuits & Settlements

You can file lawsuits against manufacturers responsible for your exposure. Average settlements range from $1 million to $2 million.

Asbestos Trust Funds

$30B+ set aside by bankrupt manufacturers. Many patients qualify for multiple asbestos trust funds funds.

VA Benefits

Disability compensation, free health care and family dependency benefits are available for eligible veterans.

Wrongful Death Claims

If a mesothelioma patient files a personal injury lawsuit but dies before resolution, it can often be converted to a wrongful death lawsuit. The estate can then continue with the mesothelioma lawsuit.

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We’ll help you explore your options and introduce you to the nation’s leading mesothelioma law firms.

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Build Your Support System

Strong support isn’t just comfort. It’s sharing stories of survival with other survivors, leaning on friends and family, asking for help when you need it and other forms of support. Research shows that a variety of support systems genuinely improve treatment outcomes. You don’t have to manage your mesothelioma diagnosis alone. Join our online Mesothelioma Support Group or our private Mesothelioma Survivor, Caregiver & Family Support Facebook group.

  • Tell at least one trusted person what you need help with this week

    People want to help but often don’t know how. Be specific about the request: a ride, help researching a doctor, someone to sit with you, etc. This is not a burden. It’s what your loved ones want for you.

  • Connect with a Patient Advocate from Asbestos.com

    Our Patient Advocates can coordinate your care, help you find financial assistance programs, handle logistics and answer questions between appointments.

  • Join our Mesothelioma Support Group

    Join our online Mesothelioma Support Group or our private Mesothelioma Survivor, Caregiver & Family Support Facebook group.

  • Ask your care team about palliative and emotional support

    Managing the emotional side effects of a serious diagnosis is part of treatment, not separate from it. Counselors, social workers and chaplains at specialty centers are there for this. Ask about them early.

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I absolutely would. In fact, I wouldn’t know how you would deal with mesothelioma if you didn’t have something like, this kind of support group that’s being done through asbestos dot com. I just don’t know how you could go through this. You have more questions and you would have answers and you would have very little to go by in terms of knowing what to do next. So, this gives me a starting point as to how to deal with doctors, how to look at decision making, related to treatment that I might be going through. It gives me a wide assortment of things that I wouldn’t have had any other way.

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Words of Hope

A mesothelioma diagnosis changes everything, but it does not define everything. Mesothelioma patients who find the right specialist, pursue every treatment and legal options and build a strong support system outlive expectations. You and your loved ones have more power in this than it may feel like right now.

Many of the mesothelioma survivors we’ve helped over the years have shared their stories in our Wall of Hope. Read their shared experiences about their cancer journey, treatments, managing family and their diagnosis.

  • Request your pathology report and confirm your cell type
  • Contact us to find you a mesothelioma specialist and treatment center
  • Ask about clinical trials and multimodal treatment options
  • Find out what legal compensation you qualify for
  • Connect with a Patient Advocate for financial assistance, treatment coordination and more
  • Join our online Mesothelioma Support Group
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